#CHICAGO SUNDAY AUG 11. #SWIMCAFE
Originally posted on That's All She Wrote!:
Our August lineup continues with the boundlessly energetic Alicia Swiz.
Alicia writes and talks and reads out loud. Sometimes it’s funny, sometimes it’s not. Find her out and about in Chicago or on the internet at PopGoesAlicia.
Come to Swim Cafe on Sunday, August 11th to hear Alicia and the rest of our fabulous lineup. Doors open at 7:30, stories start at 8.
Jul 28, 2012
A very brief history…
Originally posted on Thought Catalog:
If you grew up in America chances are you’ve been called a slut or called someone a slut. Maybe both. And if you grew up watching movies, as I did, you have been inscribed with images that encourage a slut shaming mentality. Slut shaming is rooted in conventional (biblical) wisdom that values a woman for her purity and deference to male sexual desires as opposed to supporting a woman’s choice to be sexual active in any way and with anyone she pleases. It’s the difference between treating someone as a sexual being versus a sexual object. We all know the difference between a being and an object, right?
In Hollywood films, slut shaming most commonly appears in the form of punishment of the character, like in every horror movie ever made where as soon as a girl has sex she dies, or an overall positioning of the character as bad, dirty or inconsequential. Basically, if you’re a girl and you have sex in a movie you’re either evil, unimportant or are going to die. The slut character has become a norm in films that focus on adolescence just as the term has become common vernacular in high schools across the globe. It seems you can’t have a story about girls lives without also encountering a slut and Hollywood has done it’s best to remind us why it’s not worth it to be “that kind of girl.”
Y’all, remember Shag (1989)? It’s the story of four girls about to graduate high school and spend one last weekend together at the beach. The character of Melaina is a rule breaker from the beginning, a preacher’s daughter who has to sneak out to spend the weekend with her friends. While all the girls are having sexual experiences and awakenings on the trip, Melaina is the only one assertive and confident in her sexual interests. In turn, she is nearly date-raped and “saved” only by the two “girlfriends” of the guy who in a jealous rage Melaina out of his car, force feed her booze and after covering her with shaving cream and toilet paper, abandon her in the woods. Melaina is judged and punished and what about ol’ boy? Oh, he just drove off.